Life Change –8 ways to discover if you are ready for one
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There comes a point in life when we begin to feel different; not good different and not necessarily bad different – just different. The hard ‘stuff’ is over and now we are freer and wiser than ever before. It’s that precious time we waited for, worked towards, time for those things we postponed a million times for a million good and not so good reasons; when the kids are through college, the house is paid off , we have more money, finally retire, or we feel more stable; then we’ll have the time for ‘fill in the blank.’
We have all heard the phrases many times; the third act, the last chapter, (I prefer to call it the re-awakening) but chances are we never thought they applied to ‘us’, right? Most of us were so focused on taking care of everyone else and getting there we might not have taken the time to think about or plan it with any sincerity.
When it finally arrives many times we find ourselves uncomfortable and surprisingly confused about what we would like to do and even where we’d like to be. To our dismay all those things we kept in our secret treasure boxes to be pulled out when the time was right no longer seem that appealing through the eyes of a 50 + year old.
So when do you know if that strange persistent niggling desire for ‘something different’ is your signal it’s time for a re-awakening?
Do we wake up one day and realize that our lives are more than half way over and it’s time to make the so called bucket list? Well that’s not how it happened for me but there were some cumulative revelations that I think we all share:
- We no longer feel defined by a job title or where we are on the ‘ladder’. Like it or not and most certainly in today’s financial climate the 50+ worker is looked at differently. (As in you’re still here?) Now we begin to realize just how arbitrary ‘success’ is and with the gift of hindsight we long to fulfill our own version of the good life.
- We begin to hear many of our friends and relatives are experiencing serious health issues and even dying at what we consider to be ‘so young’.
- We notice our children are now adults with children of their own and our advice and help is not needed in the way it once was.
- We realize that our parents seem to have suddenly aged and we have to think about how we will care for THEM!
- We find ourselves coming to terms with the fact that they might not be with us all that much longer or worse, maybe that time has arrived and one or both of them are gone.
- When we reunite with high school friends and pull out the old high school annual to compare the face we remembered with the one we now see. (Our picture is in there too! Yikes)
- When we listen to the news and wonder just when good old common sense left the planet and was replaced by something called “spin”.
- When we begin to hear that small voice in our head that asks “is this all there is?”
So, if any of this sounds familiar and you find yourself wondering why everything is beginning to look and feel different it could be time for a re-awakening. In fact, I say ‘congratulations’ because this is the perfect time to realize…
“There is a fountain of youth: it is your mind, your talents, the creativity you bring to your life and the lives of people you love. When you learn to tap this source, you will truly have defeated age.”
–Sophia Loren
I love that quote and it is so true but the real question is Where to Start?
Good question. That’s why I’m hosting a special NO COST Teleseminar/ Discussion entitled:
LUST RUST AND DUST -HOW TO GET A NEW PERSPECTIVE ON THE REST OF YOUR LIFE
During this group call we will explore:
- A thought provoking strategy to discover if we’re sitting too comfy
- The power of environment
- The 3 things everyone needs to be happy
- How to plan your own adventure fest.
- How to get unstuck and started!
- How to make it fun because it’s supposed to be!
Grab a cup of coffee or your favorite drink and join your fellow women of a certain age as we engage in a lively invigorating exchange of ideas and information on the next:
- WHAT: HOW TO GET A NEW PERSPECTIVE ON ‘THE REST OF YOUR LIFE’
- WHEN: October 19th 11:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m. PT
- WHERE: The comfort of your home/office.
- WHY: Because you believe this is a special time and you want to live it special:
- It’s not about money – It’s not difficult to attain;
- It’s about being Ready to Embrace this moment.
We can’t wait to meet you so Register Today for this thought provoking conversation!
YES I WANT PARTICIPATE!
Can’t come? Register anyway and I will send you the recording.
There is a life out there waiting for you -
Let’s chat!! NOW is the perfect time and place.
See you there…
To Your Dreams and Possibilities
Deborah
Have you heard the News?
If you aren’t subscribed to my bi-monthly ezine you may not have heard the news!
You see, I am unveiling my new Interactive Workshop and I would be honored if you would attend the first of the Three Part Sessions F.R.E.E. as my special guest.
It’s my way of saying thank you to all of you who’ve supported me by requesting my 21 Day Attitude Adjustment Course, reading my newsletter regularly and, of course, those of you who I have had the privilege of working with!
Many of you have been reading my blog from when it first went Live and have witnessed the many changes that have occurred here.
(So today I’d like to take this opportunity to Thank You and say congratulations to you all for taking action to improve your lives and Get Your Year in Gear!)
Now, it’s MY turn to give you something back…
I cordially invite you to join me for the first Session, via teleconference call, of the power packed Positive Attitude Workshop entitled:
SECRETS of a POSTIVE ATTITUDE REVEALED
How to acquire and maintain a positive attitude
And revitalize your life, goals and relationships
This workshop is designed enhance your ability to implement the 5 simple habits in the 21 Day Attitude Adjustment e-course. (By the way, if you don’t currently subscribe to my e-zine or have yet to take the 21 Day Attitude Adjustment Course, you can do so by putting your name and email address in the Big Green Box at the top of the page!)
During this fun and enlightening interactive call with me, you’ll discover:
• How to recognize negative programming habits that tear down personal motivation and hinder your success.
• The relationship between intent and attitude and how to use it to your advantage.
• New insight into how you personally process information.
• A simple and enlightening exercise to clarify your best traits and the best way to focus on them.
• The number one reason why most people aren’t able to change their habits and how to correct it.
• And much, much more…
This workshop includes interesting activities and exercises that will encourage you to reflect, engage and expand your understanding and learning. You will come to see the significance of acquiring a positive attitude and how to create and maintain one.
So Please Be My Guest and Join me on this F.R.E.E. Interactive call where we will reveal the Secrets to a Positive Attitude:
Reserve Your Seat Now
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
5:00 pm PT and 8:00 pm ET
Discover the Value something as simple sounding as “A POSITIVE ATTITUDE” can have on your personal and business relationships, goals and life dreams! By the way, I am really hoping you can make this call but I know there are times when, well…things just happen. So rest assured you won’t miss a thing. If you register a recorded version of the call will be sent to you after if you are unable to attend. If you have any questions please don’t hesitate to contact me. I always love hearing from you.
I hope you can join me on the 25th!
Sincerely,
Deborah Hayes deborah@womenintransitiononline.com
P.S. One more favor! Can you help me spread the word? If you know someone who would be interested in” Discovering the Secrets of a Positive Attitude” please forward this email to them and ask them to join us! If you do bring someone with you tell them to put your name on the registration in the “referred by” box on the form and you’ll receive a special bonus from me which I will tell you about at the end of the call!
P.P.S. Please know that I am very excited about the interactive feature of our call. We will have the opportunity to converse at times during the call! However it will require me to limit the number of participants, so please act now by clicking on the link below and register today!
SEATS ARE LIMITED
Tuesday, May 25th
5:00 pm Pacific Time
Reserve Your Seat Now
Deborah Hayes, CTA Life Coach
Empowering women to live a life of consequence, a life without regrets that is your own unique version of the life you love. About Deborah
deborah@womenintransitiononline.com
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